Sunday, December 02, 2007
marriages
How come most of today's marriages end in divorce. Not all some endure the test of time , but most do not they end in divorce. Is it because of the way we are raised to day or what? People have no sense of morals today. Cheating on there significant other, or girl or boyfriend. Just plan breaking the law, people don't have respect for authority anymore or moral.
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Well, it is my understanding that people have been cheating on their significant others for centuries.
But a good suggestion that might possibly help reduce divorce is that we should not focus on making divorce difficult, which it really isn't anymore, but we should focus on making marriage difficult.
Marriage is too easy and people just rush into it on a whim. People should go through significant counseling, training, have classes to teach what the responsibilities are for being married, what to expect, what to watch out for, etc.
That doesn't happen to often. But I suspect that the divorce rate is high because people just don't want to work at anything anymore. If its difficult, forget it, I'm outta here.
Marriage is difficult, and when the romance ends, which it always does, then the real work begins. Now how many of us want to work?
Many marriages do endure the test of time, but you are right most do end in divorce. I think it has alot to do with younger people marrying before they really know each other. I also agree with the above comments!
I think we should be able to have more than one, when your not happy with one or two of your wives....you can go to your other ones...Sounds like a simple fix to me...
It can't be the way people are raised "today" because I don't see any 1-17 year olds getting divorced. There might have been a problem a bit of a ways back and who knows it may still exist but it couldn't have started with my generation that is for sure. Also I agree with you when you say marriage should be more difficult to get into. Then if your successful you could wear your ring almost as a badge that you triumphed through the hardships to get into the marriage. Credit and everything should be checked out.
dont get narried if it is only going to end in divorce I would rather live in sin than get married
I think that the reason marriages end is because after being with some one for a while they start to focus on the negative. We are all human we all make mistake then we should learn to forgive and not let the same mistake happen again. this would make marriages last longer.
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I have been married now for 9 months, and I feel there are two reasons why marriages end in divorce. #1 communication..you have to communicate with your spouse in every aspect. #2 Finances...everyone needs to be awre where they stand in there finances it shouldn't be all on the woman/man to take care of the bills.
I Agree with J-beasley about the communication and Finances. My mom and dad have been married for 25 years and sometimes I wonder how they are still together. The many problems I see in there relationship is communicate and money problems. They can't ever just sit down and talk it out, and then when your broke it makes it even harder.
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